My second daughter Kaelyn was about 3 or 4 years old when
she encountered her first bully. We were
in Rawlings Wyoming at the McDonalds.
Kaelyn was playing in the McPlay House climbing through the tunnels,
sliding down the slides and just having a great time. When all seemed to be fun and games, the
bully entered the scene. He was about 6
years old and 3 times her size. If I
didn’t know any better I would have thought this kid was trying to be the
Goliath of the McPlay House.
Goliath was a pretty stout looking kid and appeared
angry. I watched him push other kids out
of his way, block kids from going into tunnels, and even shove kids down
slides. Just as I was about to say
something to his parents, I noticed Kaelyn and Goliath were having a face
off.
Goliath was in the ball pit and Kaelyn wanted in. If Kaelyn went left Goliath went right to
block her. If she went right he went
left and blocked her. Instead of
getting angry, I was being entertained. If you
know my daughter, you know she is pretty tough and strong willed. So I sat back and watched making sure he
didn’t lay a hand on her. After several
attempts to enter the ball pit I heard a very pronounced and very bold voice
say “Let me in or else!” Goliath
responded “No! Or else what?”
At that point the standoff began. Goliath on the inside had his arms crossed
and bold smirk on his face. He was
defiantly standing his ground. Kaelyn
was at the entrance with her arms crossed and eyes glaring into his with a look
that could kill. What seemed liked
several minutes had passed, neither one was going to back down.
Since the stand and glare off was not working, Kaelyn
reached above her head and grabbed the bar above her, stepped back with eye
glare still intact, and then she swung her body into the pit. What seemed like a matrix move to me is what
finally ended the standoff. Kaelyn flew
through the air and feet first she struck Goliath in the chest, he fell
backwards and disappeared into the ball pit.
Nowhere to be seen, he was completely covered.
With her bold and direct voice she stood over where he once
stood and said “I told you to let me in!” Then followed the cries “Mommy she
kicked me, waaaaa waaaaa waaaa, booooohooohooo…” Then Goliath like a whipped puppy scrambled
out of the pit and ran to his mother.
Whimpering Goliath’s mother said to him “I told you to be nice to other
kids, you got what you deserved.”
I love my daughter
Kaelyn. She is one of the boldest people I know. Sometimes she lacks constructiveness and can
be a tad harsh, but she knows who she belongs to and the strength He has given
her. She never hesitates to stand for
what she believes in.
We have giants in our lives, sometimes they are people and
sometimes they are people. Either way
they are giants that intimidate us and even prevent us from doing God’s
will. We must be bold and courageous if
we intend on winning the battles we face as Christians. Thankfully, our boldness and courage comes
from the Lord. Embrace it and call upon
it because with His strength you can knock those stupid giants down.
Here is the Brute several years latter |
I Corinthians 15:57
through our Lord Jesus Christ.
I Corinthians 16:13
be men of courage; be strong.
May my life be the proof and evidence of His love!
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